Reena from Queens asks, "is it painful when you lose your virginity the first time?"
Yes Reena, it usually is...but it hurts some people more than others. One big reason it hurts some people more is that they aren't relaxed and their partner rushes things.
Reena also asked:
"when I lose my virginity will I bleed once he reaches my cherry?"
It totally depends on the person. Some people bleed, but some people may have "popped their cherry" earlier from exercise or by accident doing random stuff.
Lastly, Reena wondered, "What would happen if you have sex on your period?"
You are less likely to get pregnant...but it's not impossible! You are also more likely to get an STD with all that blood mixing around (for example if he has a cut on his dick). But, if you wear a condom or are married, it's not unhealthy to have sex on your period.